Monday, March 31, 2014

TRUST IS A DECLARATION!






Trust is a social construct which is defined as “reliance on the integrity, strength, and ability of person to do what is expected”.  In sociology and psychology the degree of trust is a measure of belief in the authenticity, fairness and good will of the other. According to psychologists basic trust occurs during the first two years of life, and failure leads towards an orientation of insecurity and mistrust.

Trust in ontological terms is a declaration and a positive assessment about sincerity, competence, and reliability in some domain of action. Thus, if we want to risk trust we should increase our capacity for well grounded assessment.




The root of the word assessment is from the Latin “assidere” which means “to sit beside”. Assessment is grounded when the personal opinion of the person who is making the assessment is evidence-based and provides the standards against which the evidence is compared. The ungrounded assessment is when we bring up some opinion based on no evidence or valid criteria. Assessments are an inescapable and important part of our lives, and we become more effective in life by making more grounded assessments. We should also realize that assessments are just assessments and not “the truth”.

All human actions take place out of some mood or emotion. Moods are pervasive and are basically in the background. They shape our emotions and the way we act or speak.

Assessment is usually done in one of the following moods:


Naive: innocent, childlike


 Distrustful: staying away, lonely




 Skeptical: prove it over and over, mood of business




Prudent: wise and judicial: power of leaders reside here





True leaders are prudent and have the capacity to make grounded assessments. They are aware that ungrounded assessment does not serve the purpose, and being trustworthy based on valid criteria is the only sure way to maintain a trust level.







#trust, #grounded assessment, #moods, #declaration 

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

HAPPY NOROOZ AND SPRING CELEBRATIONS




March 20th of 2014 is the first day of spring which marks the Persian New Year. It is also called NOROOZ which means “a new day” in Persian language. At this time families gather around a traditional table setting called Haft-Seen to observe the rituals of spring season which is celebrated in many countries.



At the spring Equinox, when the sun is at zenith over the Equator, days are close to 12 hours long and get longer as the season progresses. Spring and “springtime” refer to the season and also to the ideas of rebirth, rejuvenation, renewal, and growth.

The last Wednesday evening of the year is called Wednesday Light when bonfires are lit and people jump over the fire saying a purification rite. This is an ancient Persian-Festival dating back to 1700 BCE.

Wednesday Fire Jumping

The traditional table setting called Haft-Seen in Persian language means seven items that their name starts with the letter “S”. Every item has a significance of its own symbolizing something very special. The items are found on every traditional Haft-Seen table around the world. The items and their significance are listed below, and as you can see there are more than seven items in my list but we should not have less than that.

1.      Sabzeh meaning sprouts of lentil, wheat or combination of other kind of seeds that we can grow in a dish. sprouts represent rebirth.




 2.      Seeb meaning apple which symbolizes health and beauty





3.      Senjet which is the dry fruit of Lotus tree and symbolizes love




4.      Seer meaning garlic which symbolizes medicine





5.      Sumac berries which symbolize sunrise




6.      Samanoo which is a wheat germ pudding and it symbolizes new life.




7.      Sekkeh meaning coin which symbolizes affluence





8.      Serkeh meaning vinegar which symbolizes age and patience




9.      Hyacinth flower which symbolizes constancy




10.   Gold fish swimming in water symbolizing life.




11.  Painted Eggs which represent spring celebration




12.  Mirror which symbolizes the sky and light.





13.  Candles which symbolize fire





14. Cookies which symbolize sweetness of life





We can have other decorative items such as all kinds of beautiful flowers or anything that adds to the beauty of the table. The traditional food of New Year’s Day is a special kind of vegetable rice and white fish.